Relationships Mum 'mortified' by husband's inappropriate comment to waitress at restaurant. So since he wasn't embarrased to pee infront of me, I decideed not to be embarrased to pee infront of him. Child, family and relationship services. Alcohol and drug services. It may be that she is so damaged that he simply cannot have a relationship with her. Urinary incontinence UI is a common condition among women. Take a look at the general practitioners entry in our health service profiles.